Research had informed us that negative behaviour should be ignored and not rewarded... hence, negative tagborders, should be ignored. However, I am never one much to shy away from 'challenges' as politely as i can muster...
In most culture and religion, as well as international "standards" of human behaviour (Social and pragmatic skills) had silently agreed that one should not judge another person - Its like they say, "Do not judge a book by its cover"... Sadly, many of us are quilty of that, including a particular tagboarder.
When we say something nasty about another person, does that make us a good person? Does it make us feel good?
There is an element of truth in what had been commented, and it had been taken into account. Alas, the tagboarder is not the first and won't be the last to pass a comment as such. I, myself, have realised how gordy the blog had become... and FAMILY and FRIENDS (note: not strangers, whom do not know me) had made similar attempts (personally and politely) to make it less depressive. This is what i would like to say: There is such a thing as 'personal thoughts', and if it tends to be BLEAK, so be it.
My thoughts on things may be different from others... but, they are ORIGINAL and are all mine! I have never forced anyone to accept my thoughts as theirs.... except maybe earlier on, hating my boss! *wink*
Like i have said earlier, life is a journey... and adventure... a process... Some may have it good, others not so. Some may be lucky, but not all. Most happy, but a small number unhappy about many things in their life.
I have to say, I am very fortunate to be born as I am, in my family, with god's gift of brain, physical strength and appetite *smile* But, I am also fortunate to be blessed with the ability to THINK and rationale things, may it be good or bad, and think THROUGHLY of any issues within my capacity - so yeah, you can say that i THINK DEEPLY *BLUSH*
Many of the 'sad' entries have histories behind that i share only with the selected few. Hence, it won't really make sense to mere visitors. It would really look like i had dug myself into the pit... and you are watching me letting go... such is not the case, I would like to reassure all my readers.
I would like to thank all that cared and worried about the mental and emotional well being of the blogger. I, indeed, am very pleased to know that you have my best interest at heart. Just like the stock market is unpredictable, so am I... But, just like the stock market, it always manages to pull itself/herself through any storm.... WITH time, understanding and lots of support!!!
I leave you with few wisdom quotes:
If a man will begin with certainties, he shall end in doubts; but if he will be content to begin with doubts, he shall end in certainties. -Francis Bacon, Advancement of Learning Bk. iHe who knows much about others may be learned, but he who understands himself is more intelligent. He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still -Lao-Tsu. Tao Teh King
To repeat what others have said, requires education, to challenge it,requires brains - Mary Pettibone Poole
Criticism is prejudice made plausible - H. L. Mencken
2 comments:
Meela, glad some positivity in your thoughts!! grow more in it! and well... hating your boss? haha we are all like family... we all fight!! hehe but still love each other... dont we? :)
Not that boss... the other one... the kaling one.
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