birthday parties

My birthday came and went... It was fun... First, I had a suprised advance LUNCH birthday thrown by my friend, AGNES and co, of which i almost did not go to... he he he... but i did in the end... she played dirty... she called my mum!!! I was given pressies, as well as a cake ;) it was delicious... I had a wonderful time with friends... talking and imaginaning things that could not be :) but does not hurt to think about :P

Then, I had another "birthday"... my sisters and parents greeted it our quiet way at home.. It was really nice... I had thien thien chicken rice... and got to sleep :) It was one of the best present ever! And i even got to wake up late the next day :P

On my other birthday, my sisters and family, decided to throw me a suprise birthday party.. I can just sniff it :P It was really plesant... I thought I was going to get good home cooked food... but i got another cake!!! and it was really really good :)

overall... I had a wonderful time on my birthday this year!!! Even if i didn't get to travel, I had a wonderful time with my family and friends. Last year, I had an equally wonderful time... I was in Myanmar ;)

• I got lots of birthday wishes... i got several birthday hugs... greetings i had plenty! I had wonderful gifts such as
• a web cam that is wonderful but to-be-installed-soon,
• girly stylish slippers,
• a very stylish brown beautiful bag that i could not have chosen better!,
• a beautiful silky pastely flowery cloth,
• an almost to be sung birthday song; of which i heard only a whisper,
• BRAS that i need as well as the matching panties :P
• and much much more...

I got the best present ever... My family and friends :) *HUGS* thank you all...

Happy birthday to me!!!

I know this is called a blog, and the aim is to keep it updated every so often so others, whom are reading this, at near or far distances, know what you are up to or how you click or just a mean of self expression of feelings. I used to be good at this, BUT recently, I have been accepted to join the Youth Ship Program and had been practicing EVERY NIGHT. I have been dead to the world soon after... Its lots of fun.. but it is also tiring. PS: Can you really imagine me dancing joget!!! LOL... hillarious!!! :P

The program includes discussion of topics that had been given to us, singing, dancing, general knowledge etc. And heading the discussion team, I feel it is up to me to help the others communicate better and have a better means of explaining what they want in a better structured manner... GOD HELP ME but that is my aim!!!

A good/bad thing is I am what I am, and communication has always been a goal of mine!!! And the people in the program, some of them, are bad a publicly communicating!!! SIGH!!! I know you can't help EVERYONE, but i feel that i have to help them... I can't just leave them to be as they are... sigh... the bad side of being responsible!!! :(

BUT, i do get to plan what i want to do with them to make them a better communicator, and that has been lots and lots of fun! I have asked them to stand in a croud, give drama, etc... Its fun and I am actually having lots of fun thinking of tricks to increase their self esteem and confidence in publicly speaking :P

Anyways, more about that when there are more things going on or if anyone pisses me off.... At the moment, people had been nice and friendly.. and had been working hard :) BUT I am sure this will change ;)

My birthday... I promised an explaination about my birthday mistery. Well... Legally, My birthday would be on the 14th of July but my family would usually greet me on the 15th July!!! [THAT is, if they remember it is my birthday. It had happend before that they were so busy with his majesty's b'day that they completely forgotten mine... and i only got a birthday wish in August!!!! SIGH... BUT such is life... its not all rosey!!! *wink*]

Why is this?? Why so strange? Well... this is where the story comes... On my birth certificate, It was written that i was born on the 14th July few decades ago. The nurse that was attending my mum wrote that down, and it was certified by people whom was not my dad (he was not there) and being LAID BACK as they are, did not check the details on it! However, according to my mum, I was born on the 15th July, because i was born after the midnight of 14th July, when she came to the hospital!!! This mistake was done few years ago, and i wouldn't be suprised if such mistakes is being made NOW!!! Such is my faith in the system!

I can't contest with what was written on the birth certificate... and i probably would not want to anyways... it would feed an army of people for the extorbent prices these lawyers charge you for legal stuff like that!!! Anyways, what's in a birthday??? All i do is be grateful that i am alive, healthy and had been given this privillaged lifestyle despite my groanings and moanings!!! BUT i always believe that I have ALWAYS been one of the LUCKIEST human on earth!!!

As a child, i was a bit confused about my identity realted to the birthdates... But i simply could not be bothered any more... You determine who and what you are... not the time of birth, the date of birth or the circumstances you are born into as believed in some cultures!!!

Having said all that, that is all i have to say on the subject for now... I thank you for reading and taking a bit of time to understand the jargon i was writing above. Last but not least, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!! *wink*

PS: I wan't bored doing all the quizes... merely making up for the lack of in put i have been giving the BLOG... and also as an insight to what "ME" is all about.... :P NOT all are true, i think... but that is for you to think and pick :P Happy reading :P

Your Rising Sign is Taurus

You are the ultimate rock - stable and centered. People turn to you in crisis and count on you for calm. Stubborn and strong minded, you can't be pushed around. You are also tenacious, and you always will stick with something difficult. A bit fan of nature, you're attracted to the beauty of the outdoors. And sometimes, you find it easier to relate to animals than people.

What is Your Rising Sign?

Cancer - Your Love Profile

Your positive traits:



You're intuitive enough to know what's going wrong in a relationship early on

A total sweetheart - you're often the most caring person anyone knows

You are a generous and devoted parter to whoever you fall in love with



Your negative traits:



Insecurity - you tend to need a huge amount of comforting from your partner

You tend to be overly sensitive and easily hurt, which make loving you difficult

It's difficult to predict your moods. One minute you're up - the next you're down.



Your ideal partner:



Someone equally sensitive, who wants to take time to get to know you deeply

Dreams of an everlasting love - complete with marriage and a family

Loves to take care of you. Being a good cook and masseuse doesn't hurt!



Your dating style:



Slow. You enjoy dates that last all day, with plenty of time to talk and get to know one another.



Your seduction style:



Quite tender and loving, once you are comfortable in your relationship.

Coy. You tend to play it cool to drive your lover wild.

Orally talented - you're known as the best kisser in the zodiac.



Tips for the future:



Be a little less sensitive. Not every little mistake should hurt you.

Spend time away from your partner every so often - independence is a good thing.

Find ways to take care of yourself. You'll be happier if you put yourself first.



Best place to meet someone online:



eHarmony - you'll be able to take the time to get to know each potential match well



Best color to attract mate: Aqua



Best day for a date: Wednesday



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Your Birthdate: July 15

With a birthday on the 15th of any month, you are apt to have really strong attachments to home, family and domestic scene. The 1 and 5 equaling 6, provide the sort of energy that makes you an excellent parent or teacher. You are very responsible and capable. This is an attractive and an attracting influence. You like harmony in your environment and strive to maintain it. You tend to learn by observation rather than study and research. You may like to cook, but you probably don't follow recipes. This number shows artistic leanings and would certainly support an talents that may be otherwise in your makeup. You're a very generous and giving person, but perhaps a bit stubborn in ways.

What Does Your Birth Date Mean?

Your Birthdate: July 14

With a birthday on the 14th of the month (5 energy) you are inclined to work well with people and enjoy them. You are talented and versatile, very good at presenting ideas, and you are also very good at organization and systematizing. You may have a tendency to get itchy feet at times and need change and travel. You tend to be very progressive, imaginative and adaptable. Your mind is quick, clever and analytical. A restlessness in your nature may make you a bit impatient and easily bored with routine, and rebel against it. You have a tendency to shirk responsibility.

What Does Your Birth Date Mean?

You Are Strawberry Ice Cream

A bit shy and sensitive, you are sweet to the core. You often find yourself on the outside looking in. Insightful and pensive, you really understand how the world works. You are most compatible with chocolate chip ice cream.

What Flavor Ice Cream Are You?

The month of July

I am so sorry to have been quiet... but if you are unaware, I just started my "training" for the kapal belia... Hence, I will be busy most days... We are training 6 times per week, and it usually starts at 7:30 pm till about 11 pm. By the time, i get home, i look through some work and i am DEAD TIRED!!!

I had some ideas what i wanted to write for this special month... and one of it is my BIRTHDAY"! YES YES YES... the dreaded event... I am getting older... In my life, I have only been thrown one suprise birthday party to which i almost did not come, due to health reasons...

Since i was a little girl, my parents disbelieved in celebrating birthdays, BUT i do get presents, as well as cards and greetings. It never seemed to bothered me, but other children that got to celebrate their birthdays in a big way and often brag and look forward to it often annoyed me... Now that I am working and much older and is able to support myself without much burdeon on my parents, I am open to celebrations. This is the usual big feasts in restaurants... but i belived in my parents' teachings... i dont celebrate it so much...

I don't mind the quiet get together, cheer, call, text, greeting or even presents... but i dont quite like the fuss of a BIG CELEBRATION... Hence, over the few years, every time its my birthday, i KEEP quiet and keep to myself... let the hype DIE... and resurface a few weeks later... BUT this year, I have to cancell that tradition as other members in my office wants to take leave as well... one can't be selfish...

Its even not suprising for me if my family members forget my birthday since everyone is sooooo busy with his Majesty's birthday. My dad usually work his arse off unitl the early hours of the day... and my mum usually waits up for him... my sisters had the walking along the road... and occasionally not being in the country... They do, however, remember before the month changes to August as the "HYPE" starts to still.

There is the issue of my birth date... there is this mysterious mystery clouding it... but that is for another blog entry, hopefully before my birthday...

Maybe tomorrow, I will try and fill in another quiz and see if you agree with it as my two boys (Burt and Zul) keeps on commenting about...

Keep the tag board active... leave footprints in the comments... dont be shy people... If i am going away end of this year, it would be nice to come back home to something on the tagboard or the comments board!!!