life manual...

Do you ever wish that you were born with a comprehensive manual on how to live life... that would include what to do in awkard situations, troubles you dig yourself into, love and relationships with people and more...

I often wonder and wait for this amazing manual to be written by an exceptional individual so that all of us can live life in an ordely manner... and that we do not have to second guess what is coming next...

How many of us ever wondered if we should console a friend in crisis but should we butt ourself in and console them or do we respect their privacy and give them space and walk away? Another senario is what should we do if we are in "love"? Do we hang around our love all the time or do we meet once a day or once a week? Do we meet their family early on or should we wait? How and when are you sure that the person is the "one"?

Sigh... i've read somewhere that you need to go through life's experiences to be wise... and that somethings are worth the risks while other risks are not worth it at all... but if we do not take any risk, we can never possibly tell what could have happen... Won't this dilema be solved if only we are born with a manual?

There are times when i am sick and tired of second guessing what others are doing or thinking. For once, i would like to do something knowing that is what i am supposed to be doing and this is the reaction I am getting... Sometimes, having something predictable does not seem so bad at all!

However, predictability do mean monotonous life... a life that have been carefully planned and we should follow plans and there would be plenty of rules to follow and obey! That could be suffocating! Not no mention the riots it would create amongst the "teenagers"...

Given the freedom to make life what you wish it to be or what you want it to be is beautiful. However, there are several things that humans follow that gives us a sense of direction... and that is religion and moral values. But those that do not obey them makes lives of other people hell... Why do they do that? Do they get a kick from being hated?

I am not sure what i want... a manual (sometimes, especially when i am stuck in a situation where i do not know what to do) or be different and original... where i get into trouble but gain a lot of experience from it... But what ever it is... I would still try to live my life to the best... but it would have been easier with help... and i am sure i am not the only one thinking the same things...